Love is in the air but when it is one-sided, it is only in your head. You are no Rumi or Ghalib, so you ain’t good with poetry. And even if you are, use your energies on a positive note. One-sided love is the second most common thing after breathing. So first thing you need to realize that one-sided love is not something cool and unique.
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And the idea of being sad and lonely when in one sided love situation is all f**d up. Love is about happiness and joy, not the sadness or tears of pain. If not happy with yourself, and not happy for your own well being, spreading love is not your cup of tea. So never ever think of being in love which is not reciprocated.
You feel neglected
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You will always feel neglected, even when you are not being neglected. That person has the most important value in your life, but vice versa it is NOT true.
Alienating yourself
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Separating yourself from friends and family is the worst damage to self love. Don’t be that one person who wants to listen to Jageet Singh’s Tum Bin tracks at a happening party.
It sucks not telling
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And the ultimate losers are those who never gather the courage to express their love to their love. And if you have fallen in love this way, you have fallen a real low in life. Can’t say much about love.
Useless hopes can ruin you
Hoping that one day they will realise your love. And just like shitty B-town films there will be happy endings. You need a reality check mate. And if you have no such hopes, the case is even worse.
Real life is without any background music
Always remember, your life is not Ranbir’s Rockstar and there’s no Rahman giving background score. So take off your ear plugs and stop imagining yourself in the song.
Jealousy
Having jealousy in your heart for anything or anybody will simply ruin you as a person. And not just that, it lowers you on your spiritual graph as well. (If there is any, & you believe in it)
Revengeful ideas
What’s worse than jealousy? The answer is revenge. The incidents of acid attacks, rape and hate crimes. When one-sided love turns into an obsession, it becomes a cruelty in society.
Self worth is shattered
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In the words of Gulzar, always remember “Dusron Ki Jai Se Pehle Khud Ko Jai Karein”. Your efforts of trying to impress that one particular person, all end up as failures. Making you feel worthless, you lose your own respect.
Love is a beautiful feeling, it should always stay like that!
