There is a very thin line between friendship and love. But while one can progress from friendship to a love relationship very easily, the reverse is not possible most of the times. It’s very rare to stay friends after breaking up with your love partner! Because after your breakup, you not only lose your guy but that love, trust, care and understanding is also lost! Well here are some reasons why you can’t be friends with your ex lover?
Trust is over
If you don’t trust him any more, how can you befriend him? I mean, even if you try I don’t think it’ll work.
Reasons for breakup
The reasons or the misunderstandings that were the cause of your breakup won’t allow you to stay friends. Every face to face meeting will just be a reminder to all those reasons and the resultant hurt.
Love is still there
Sometimes, you may still have feelings for him but are not able to handle that ‘only friends’ tag. This feeling will screw you up.
It hurts you
To stay friends with the same person will not let you to move on! It will hurt you every time you see him around! So it’s better to stay away.
You want to move on
If you want to move on then you have to leave your past where it should be – in the past. And for that, you have to forget him completely which wouldn’t be possible if you stay friends.
Love is replaced with hatred
When all your love for him is replaced with hatred, how can you accept that person as a friend in your life? It doesn’t make any sense!
Can’t overcome previous loss
When your previous loss is still fresh in your mind, how can you start a new relationship with the same guy? It will only hurt you more and deep!
Can’t see him with anyone else
If you both plan to stay just friends, just ask yourself whether you will be able to see him with his new girlfriend. You might want to kill yourself in such a situation, if you truly loved him.
