Why should there be a question about dating a successful woman? Why should a problem be seen in the possibility at all? If she is successful, it’s you who stands to benefit in the end. I mean, just think about your pocket and her expenses. I am not trying to scare you, it’s just that she will not be dependent on you. But, there are some things that will come in your way but you better keep them aside!
Her surname
If she is a successful lady, she must have established her image, her name and herself as a brand in the market. Brands are not made in a day, so if she wants to continue with her maiden surname after marriage, it should be fine and made bones about.
Your insecurities
You might think of yourself as not so successful, but please be wise. You have your own professional life and she her own. Don’t feel insecure by her dignity and success because it has nothing to do with yours. Keep your personal and professional life balanced and happy.
Financial dependency
You cannot blame your lady for this. Be independent if you have any problem in asking for money!
Your ego
This is something that is really not required, but still it’s there in abundance. Give it a break guys! If your lady is successful, you should be proud of her. Don’t let your ego be a stumbling block in her way!
No time to spend together
This can be a genuine problem, but again there’s no point of quarrelling. There should be a mutual understanding between the two of you. Try to spare some time for each other, it’s just “some” time and I’m sure you can do that.
Misunderstanding
Only your intentions are to be blamed because she may say anything, you will take it otherwise. And jokes!! No, she cannot afford them at any cost. Actually, she cannot afford your over reaction to her jokes!
Social things
This male dominating society is like this only, they never want a woman to grow bigger than them! You can’t change them, but don’t let them bother your life. But you can do this only if you don’t think like them and love your lady and respect her dreams.
